I'm wearing my Cuffs, but my HUD says I'm not
This is most likely an SL sync issue.
Try the following till it works.
Detach your Cuffs, and rez a new set from the HUD,
one or two at a time
Restart your HUD and try again.
HUD Menu > HELP > restart
Get a
new HUD
and try again. Or
HUD Menu > HELP > new HUD
https://lu2.me/notWorn